I remember my first job. There was this georgous guy working their
the only problem was I had never talked to him but I knew I wanted him. Every
day I wore my most revealing clothes, flashed my legs when ever he was about,
caked my face in make up. I did this for two months without even talking to
him and he didn`t even notice me. Then one day I thought all my birthdays had
come at once. Here I was standing in the lift with him. The next thing I did
I will never forget until the day I die. I jumped up at him and kissed him full
blown on the lips. The poor bloke nearly had a heart attack. I told him I had
been after him for ages but that he hadn`t even noticed me. He exploded shouting
that he had seen me and thought that I had been acting like a tart and that
he was married but even if he wasn`t I wouldn`t stand a chance. Well I slapped
him for the insult, walked out and never returned. This funny insidant taught
me a valuble lesson just be yourself (Oh and find out if he`s married). Here
are a few pointers to keep in mind when trying to attract a man
The man has to know that you exist. Say you have been working
in the same office as the guy for a while and he hasn`t noticed you the chances
are he has no interest in you.
Confidence is the number one attraction. Being more confident with yourself
and your surroundings will attract someone that is equal to you. You will also
notice that more people are drawn to you.
Appearance is also a big issue. If he sees you when you are at your worst
then he will not want to look a second time.
Give him a reason to think about you. Wear a lingering fragrance that sticks
to his senses, soft clothes that he yearns to touch, a smile that he can't get
out of his mind.
Flirt with him. Make him feel important. Listen to what he says, laugh at his
jokes no matter how lama they are, take an interest in his interests.
Don`t try and be something you are not. He will be falling for a false idol
and will not want to know you when he sees the real you.
Be vulnerable. Let down the armor. Let men do things for you then thank them
for their help.