What is dogging?
The term dogging refers to either having or observing exhibitionist sex
in a public or semi-public place, usually outdoors. Sometimes the voyeurs
join in on the sex, usually they just watch from nearby.
Why is it called dogging?
There are several possible explanations: "dogging" can mean
following or watching, or it might refer to having sex outdoors like dogs.
A popular theory is that it comes from the alibi of "walking the
dog" to explain your outdoor adventures..
How did dogging start?
Dogging has been getting a lot of attention lately, but people have been
doing it for many years. Recently, with the advent of the internet, cell
phones, and messaging, it is easier for doggers to find one another and
arrange meetings.
Is dogging like swinging?
Many people who are into dogging are also involved in the swinging scene
(wife-swapping, group sex, etc.). Some couples just like to put on a show
to spice things up now and then.
Why is dogging so popular?
It's fun and it's forbidden. People love to watch and be watched during
sex. There's also an element of challenge and adventure to finding a good
dogging spot and seeking out an exciting encounter.
What kind of people go dogging?
Couples into exhibitionism are usually in their 30s to 50s, though some
may be older or younger. Observers are usually single men. Most doggers
are middle class, and most lead quite average lives apart from their "hobby".
Where are the best places for dogging?
Doggers mostly choose open air, somewhat out of the way places, often
in or near country parks. Car parks are also quite common congregating
spots, and occasionally cinema halls. Check our links section for web
sites with lists of known dogging locations.
How widespread is dogging?
Public sex happens nearly everywhere, but the dogging phenomenon has really
flourished in the United Kingdom, for some reason. There are signs it
is spreading rapidly to Canada, New Zealand, Canada and the U.S.
Is dogging illegal?
Dogging somewhat of a legal grey area, and the laws regarding public sex,
nudity, lewdness, and their enforcement, vary by jurisdiction. In the
UK, there are laws against public sex but they mostly are concerned with
protecting "unwilling witnesses" from seeing acts of lewdness.
We're not sure how this would be applied to sex in front of willing witnesses.
However, if there is a complaint, you may be prosecuted. And in some areas
the local police have been stepping up patrols to discourage activity
at notorious dogging hangouts.
Is dogging dangerous?
There are a number of risks involved in dogging. Anytime you're dealing
with people you meet online, going to a secluded spot, and putting yourself
in a compromising position, you are making yourself somewhat vulnerable.
Usually everyone is just looking for a good time, but crimes can happen,
so always be cautious and be aware of your surroundings.
Another risk of dogging now becoming evident is that of contracting sexually
transmitted diseases. Be safe when playing with strangers. Use condoms,
gloves, and appropriate contraception.
I don't have a car. Can I still go dogging?
Many dogging activities revolve around cars, as couples do like to have
sex in cars and some locations are somewhat remote. However, it's quite
possible there is dogging activity in your area that is accessible by
public transport. Check dogging sites and dogging groups for info. Also,
many doggers are motorbike enthusiasts, so a car is not strictly necessary.
How do I talk my partner into trying dogging?
Obviously dogging is a consensual activity, but it's not going to be everyone's
cup of tea. Try broaching the subject of dogging and see how he or she
responds to the idea. If they seem receptive, talk about how a dogging
scenario could play out and see if they get turned on. If you decide to
go for it, make the arrangements together. Don't take them out "for
a drive" and spring it on them. Never trick or coerce someone into
a scene.
I tried going to a dogging spot and nothing was going on there.
What happened?
If you just showed up at a reported dogging area, maybe you just hit a
quiet spell. Sometimes you have to hang out and give it some time. Also,
spots may change in popularity, and if there are problems at one, people
may move on.
I went to a dogging spot and it was closed off. Why?
If you went to a nature area or car park and found it fenced off, it's
likely a response to too much dogging activity in that area, causing complaints
about noise, traffic, trash and general naughtiness. More businesses and
government agencies are becoming aware of dogging and are beginning to
take action to discourage it. However, the doggers find a new spot and
get back to business.