If you really want to excite your partner try
. . .
One evening while out with your partner at a formal gathering (i.e. a
work party, memorial day, group movie night or even a family barbecue,
etc.) wear your partner's favorite skirt. Note, on this night, unlike
any other night, you will be wearing nothing underneath the skirt. In
addition that morning, you will have shaven off all of your vulva hair.
Then, while the two of you are out, whisper in his ear that you have nothing
on underneath.
One evening, when you normally would put on a sexy piece of sexy lingerie,
wear a body suit instead. Again, that evening before putting on the body
suit, shave.
One day, pretend that you have been 'lounging' around the house. Make
sure you are wearing some beat up sweatpants and that your hair is a mess.
However, unbeknownst to your partner, that morning after a long shower,
you shaved your vulva hair. Thus, while in your 'grubby' clothes, entice
into becoming sexual with you, and watch his surprise as he realizes that
you had this all planned out.
The next time the two of you are showering together, ask your partner
to shave you. Tell your partner that this would turn you on.