Placing an ad (or replying to one) in a specialist
Personals area of a website like Playpartner.com can be a very useful way
to meet people who might interest you as potential swinging partners. In
general, the more information you can give about yourselves, the more likely
you are to get replies from people who suit you.
Suggested topics for inclusion in your personal ad are: your ages and
physical descriptions; if you are a couple, your relationship with each
other; where you are located; the distance you are willing to travel and/or
whether you could accommodate potential swinging partners; your sexual
orientation; your level of swinging experience; and, critically, what
sort of experiences are you looking for and what you do not want . The
ubiquitous "sexy fun" is so vague that it is not particularly
helpful.
Many people find it very useful to include a photograph of each person
advertising. This has the following advantages: you are likely to get
more people looking at your ad; the replies you get are likely to be more
similar to you in standard of looks; and you are then in a better position
to ask for photographs in return from those responding to your advertisement.
You may find that posting and requesting normal, clothed pictures in regular
situations work best.
One of the downsides of placing a personal ad is that it is likely that
only a small proportion of those that reply will interest you (so prepare
to spend some time weeding out those who don't!) Some who reply will even
have ignored totally what you have said you want (it seems that a large
number of guys do not understand the phrase "No Single Men"…).
It does also mean that you will be putting your personal information and
intentions in a public domain. Placing your Ad here on Playpartner.com
is free as well as contacting other sexy singles and couples. You can
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