Not everyone is romantically gifted and
we often tease our male counterparts on their lack of romance. But sometimes
women can be just as romantically inept or even more so than their partner.
When that situation occurs, they are left floundering, searching their
brains to come up with a romantically sexual experience. The following
romantic plan is an idea you can try or can use to brainstorm your own
ideas. Some of it requires preparation.
Ladies men love nothing better than a good
hunt, so give them one. The set-up is important so keep your plan to yourself
until the appointed time – don’t give him any clues that you
have come up with a special evening. At the right moment request him to
go get another roll of toilet paper or paper towel, whichever is easier
for you to have a realistic request for. On the paper have a direction,
such as “The mail was late today, it came while I was naked, warm,
and wet in the bathtub. A kiss for you if you get the mail for me.”
If he breaks the moment by asking you what is going on tell him to play
along.
He should go out to the mailbox to get the mail for you. When he is gone
run to the bedroom to begin your preparations. Change your clothes into
something decadent and turn on some soft music. In the mail box should
be another slip of paper with another direction, perhaps “Silly
me, I did get the mail right after I played with myself on our nice comfortable
bed. How could I forget, can you imagine? I am naked in our bedroom and
it is chilly, a hug for you if you find a blanket for me.” The key
is to get him visualizing these little tidbits.
Of course, in the linen closet (or where you keep your blankets) is yet
another note. This one something like “You know thinking about you
and what you do to me is making me all warm and wet. I don’t want
the blanket, I need some ice to cool me off.” You can, if you desire,
lengthen or shorten his quest for as long as you believe he will participate.
In the freezer have a bucket or something with ice in it.
By now you should be scantily clad in your bedroom sitting on the bed.
When he comes in take the ice from him and set it aside. Give him, the
kiss and the hug from the hunt and tell him to sit down and behave. Ask
him if he is a little tense and would like a back rub. Help him strip
down to nothing. Once he is lying down begin his backrub, eventually straddle
his back and begin rubbing yourself along his back while touching him.
If possible rub yourself to climax on his back. (It shouldn’t be
too difficult; most women began masturbation by rubbing themselves on
bedding, pillows or simply rubbing their clitoris.) What should follow
this adventure is a night you both will enjoy – oh, and don’t
forget the ice!
