You have been living with him for only a month now but something is missing.
What is it? Spontaneous, adventurous sex. Don`t panic there is no need to
start packing your bags. You just need to remind him that because you are
living together it doesn`t mean that the sex has to become boring. Here
are some great tips for keeping your sex hot.
A room to call your own
The key to success is space. You both need your own space, a place for just
you. If your home is big enough and you can afford it you should definitely
have your own rooms.
Make your room like a bedsit. A bedroom come lounge come office. Decorate
the way you want it and it is great for having the girls over without
disturbing your partners space and his room can serve the same purpose.
Now for the sex tips
Fantasy play
Now you are living together it is time to unleash your wild side. Let
him in on your fantasies and in courage him to share his with you. As
long as your fantasies don`t include other people act them out. If you
want to dress as a nurse, school girl or you want him to dress as a soldier
go a head and do it. There is no reason why you can`t live out your fantasies
as long as they don`t hurt anyone.
Quickies
When was the last time you had a quickie? All men love them, no foreplay
no planning just quick unadulterated sex. Squeezing in an act of lust/love/naughtiness
into a few hurried minutes isn't just for adulterers and teenagers. The
next time you come home together have sex as soon as you walk through
the door or have a quickie in the morning before going to work. You are
guaranteed to feel happy all day.
Date
Not other people. Not the movies or for dinner but dating like you use
to. Arrange to meet up separately. Pretend you are on your first date
and remember how nervous you were, the butterflies were doing triple somersault
in your stomach. Make a date with each other at least once a week. Dress
up, buy a new outfit look your best and wear some naughty underwear. Then
have sex in the park on the way home. You are guaranteed to have great
sex if you continue to date each other.
In the back seat
When was the last time you had sex in the car? Take a drive to the country.
If you`re not driving tell him what you are going to do to him once the
car has stopped. Wear a skirt with no knickers and give him a flash of
what he is going to get. Tease him, lick your fingers, rub your legs and
if you are brave enough masturbate while he drives. He will be begging
you for sex by the time you reach your destination.
Naked picnic
Me and my boyfriend went up to the countryside for a picnic.
It was a lovely hot day and as we wanted to be a lone we found a field
that was 3 foot high with flowers. You can imagine what happened next.
We stripped all our clothes off and and made love right there in this
field where we could have easily been caught. It was the best sex I have
ever had. Naked, sweaty and the excitement that we could have been caught
I would suggest everyone try it at least once. By the way we never got
to eat our picnic.
Bedroom makeover
Revamp your bedroom turn it into a love palace. Put large mirrors behind
your bed and if you are daring enough on the ceiling. Hang dark curtains
from the window. Store all clutter make the bedroom just for sex and sleeping.
Light some candles and open a bottle of champagne and get down to some
serious love making.
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