There are millions of people who enjoy the lifestyle
and find that it enhances their sex lives with their partners. Swinging
can add variety, excitement, allow you to explore other sides of your sexuality,
be a way of meeting new and interesting people, provide inspiration for
your fantasies and give you and your partner fabulous experiences on which
you can draw in your private sex life together.
If you have a solid relationship and you are both keen to try new things
with sexy new playmates, then swinging may well be for you. Do explore
the issues that might arise with your partner before rushing in. For example,
is your self-esteem high enough to avoid destructive feelings of jealousy
if your partner is openly attracted to, and maybe making love with, another
attractive person? Would you be willing to call a halt to something that
was making your partner feel uncomfortable? Finally, keep open the lines
of communication with your partner as you experience new things to ensure
that you are both happy about the way things are going.