It is extremely unlikely that you will be pressured
into doing anything with which you are not comfortable. Make your feelings
and expectations known (as well as any "no-no"s) to potential
swinging partners and the overwhelming majority will accept them with no
questions asked and without putting pressure on you. Of course, it helps
enormously if you are clear in your own mind where you would like to set
your personal boundaries. You should also have a clear understanding of
what your partner feels about what he or she would like to do and what he
or she would be comfortable with you doing! Some couples even have special
signs or code words to use in swinging situations to tell each other whether
or not they are comfortable with something.