Since there is only just over a week until the election, some of the stories that are coming out of the campaigns are outrageous. For instance, Sarah Palin and the GOP spent $150,000 on her wardrobe. Lets put this into perspective, that is 100 hundred, fifty thousand dollars. Normally I wouldn’t rant about politics in my blog, but the thought that a machine that is running to “change” this country, doles out a 150k for clothes. Was she broke before? After all her house is a Governors mansion? I am actually insulted by this. If they wanted to give out a 150,000, I am willing to bet that 1,000’s of American families whose homes are in foreclosure could have used a chunk of that to catch up on a payment or two. Maybe some of the elderly could have had a nice meal rather then deciding between food and medication.

Instead, they felt that poor Palin either inadequate with buying her own clothes or the GOP had to much money on hand. Since we haven’t seen anything on her that looks worthy of the 150k, lets assume she bought a lot, I mean a lot of hot lingerie. Maybe we should now put her and todd into the mix with “Who would you swing with?” Certainly Palin has the legs, and eyes, but can she use what she has been given?

As for Todd, he seems a bit uppity, vengeful, I bet he would like to watch and be a voyeur rather then join in. He might even have some hot video of him and Sarah in the mansion, maybe some pictures. It’s one of those untold things among governors.

Getting back to my original thought, I think that the recent story about extraordinary amount of clothes for Sarah Palin, is a reflection of the last eight years. Just imagine what they will do with an open check book if put into the white house? Maybe 200,000 for a sybin room for Cindy? Another 500,000 for a stock of viagra for John? Lets hope not, this was my rant. Happy swinging!

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With all the negative ads and stories running a muck in this years election, we thought we ask you this tough question. “Which presidential candidate couple would you swing with?” I know it’s a difficult question, but lets look at the options.

Would it be John McCain and his wife Cindy? or would it be Barack and Michelle Obama?

The pros and cons of John and Cindy McCain

A) John is probably using Viagra so staying power wouldn’t be an issue. But since his wife controls all the family money and makes most of the family decisions he may be to much of a submissive.
B)Cindy on other hand, sports a newly dyed blond hair dew, freshly injected botox treatment and a great smile. But beneath that artificially enhanced exterior lies a Domme in wait. Yes, just notice how John smiles, it has “She has my balls tightly resting in the palm of her hand” written all over it. So if you are into some kink with pain and humiliation, then she’s your gal.

Moving onto Barack and Michelle Obama

A)Barack is young, he has a deep voice, great smile and well he is black. (You know what they say about black men, sorry John), so ladies can you say bbc?
B) Moving onto Michelle, ok, she is also young, great smile, smokin body and uh, anyone know her cup size? I’m willing to bet she is willing to be on top as much as she is the bottom, great looking couple.

I would say since I am not submissive and not into older men (Sorry John and Cindy) I would have to go with Barack and Michelle. (Did I mention I was bi?) I want to hear from you, who and why would you swing with either candidate?

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If you have been watching the hit t.v show swingtown then you have an idea what todays blog will be about and that is “revisiting the rules” within your relationship. On the last episode, the experienced couple faced a situation that caused them to do this very thing.

The husband, who is a pilot, started a new route to Japan. On his trips, he stays the night and the crew gets together for an after flight party. He ends up sleeping with one of his crew memebers and later his wife finds out about the event. We later learn that the woman whom he slept with, was on their list of people that it was ok to play with. However, it wasn’t ok that his wife didn’t know about it before hand. This caused a bit of drama to unfold.

The couple later discussed the issue and decided to revisit the rules of their swinging relationship and how they play with others. For the most part, they decided to be exclusive until they can regain their footing and understand the feelings they were having.

In his mind, it was ok because the crew member was “On the list”, but he failed to tell his wife ahead of time. So naturally she felt betrayed. This brings up some very interesting points. If your relationship allows each other to swing without your significant other present, how would you feel if you were not informed or told about it ahead of time or even after the fact?

Much of this lifestyle is based on trust, trust that your partner will always make you feel safe and secure within your relationship, if that is broken or even bruised then revisiting the rules is a good idea

But how do you go about that? Do you just forget about the lifestyle or do you do what this couple did? Communication is extremely important when a couple is having sex with others outside their relationship. It is a good idea that each other understand the rules and boundaries that are in place the preserve the integrity of their relationship. If not, this could have a disastrous result. Don’t be afraid to ask questions and clarify what you expect from the other. No question is to silly, and well defined rules are a must.

So what do you do if you think your partner has crossed the boundary? As in the show swingtown, it might be a good idea to become exclusive again until the feelings are all sorted out. I would suggest writing the rules down on paper, so if such an occasion should occur, you could revisit it and redefine them so you both are ok with what you are doing. Your relationship should always come first. I would like to hear what you think. Have you had a similar experience? If so, let the readers know!

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Ever since the hit series Swingtown debuted on prime time television, internet searches for married personals have doubled. Is it because of a new found curiosity or is because the lifestyle has become more socially acceptable? Whatever the case may be, more and more couples are exploring the once “taboo” experience of swapping wives or yes the occasional playpartner.

Society was once cold to the concept of a married couple meeting others to indulge in sexual freedoms and now we are able to see it on television. It could be because that what was once taught, that sex was only meant to be between a married man and woman, has expanded into new friendships and along with it life experiences.

If you are interested in swinging, then I suggest you read the swingers guide on playpartner.com and see if the lifestyle is for you. It takes a great amount of trust within your relationship and confidence within that. There are many different levels of swinging, such as those wishing to “soft swing” which would be a couple wishing to have same room sex and not swap with another couple. The other side of that would be the full swap, which would be swapping partners and having sex in other locations, rooms our houses etc. Those are the two ends of the spectrum, with many more in between. You should just find what you are comfortable with and go from there.

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The second show of the new hit series Swingtown aired last night on CBS. In last nights episode, the newbie swinger couple has time to reflect on their new lifestyle. If you watched the first show, then you already know they explored the experience of swapping partners for sexual fun.

On last nights show, the couple has time to reflect on the experience and find themselves in a new place within their relationship. The wife begins to find herself with some inner turmoil, that being that the thought that her husband wanted other women or that he wasn’t happy with her sexually. The husband doesn’t seem to share the same turmoil as his wife but as the show progresses, he reassures her that she is his one and only love and that swinging is only an added benefit of their relationship

I think this brings out an important point with the swingers lifestyle, that how swingers couples view the first encounter. As studies have shown, women are more geared towards feelings of sharing their husband with another woman. It shows how important it is to communicate with your significant other about your relationship and experiences. Men on the other hand, can compartmentalize the experience, keeping it purely sexual with no other attachments.

I think the show swingtown is not only entertaining but blends the real life swinger experience to a new light. Guys, if you are watching this show, take notes! Gals, if you are watching this show take notes! If you are a new couple looking to start swinging, remember, if you don’t have the trust as a foundation of your relationship, then maybe it isn’t for you.

I would like to hear about your first experience with swinging with other couples. Did you have the same feelings? Did you continue to swing?

I think the best visual about your relationship and first swingers experience was talked about last night. When the husband said “Our relationship is like a snow globe that was just shaken, beautiful before, and beautiful afterwards, but right now a bit shaken or a new place

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